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The TikTok ban may have been short-lived, but the message it sent was crystal clear: if your audience lives exclusively on social media, you’re playing a dangerous game. And let’s be real, that game is rigged. Algorithms shift, platforms disappear, and suddenly you’re left scrambling to reconnect with your people.

But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be this way.

Imagine having a space where your audience isn’t just scrolling past your content but engaging deeply—a place you own, free from the whims of algorithms, platform shutdowns, or unexpected bans. It’s not just wishful thinking. It’s completely doable, and I’m here to show you how.

The Illusion of Control on Social Media

Let’s start with the elephant in the room: platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook are amazing for visibility. They’re the megaphones of the online world, letting you connect with massive audiences, share your expertise, and even build income streams. But here’s the kicker: you don’t own those audiences.

Social media gives you the illusion of control. Your follower count? Rented. Your engagement rates? Rented. Your DMs? Yup, still rented. And as any landlord-tenant relationship goes, you’re at the mercy of the platform.

Case in point: when the TikTok ban was announced, creators everywhere panicked. Years of effort, growth, and income tied to one app—poof, gone. Even though the platform came back, the disruption itself was a wake-up call. It’s a reminder that when you’re building your audience on someone else’s turf, you’re always one policy change or algorithm update away from starting over.

Future-Proof Your Audience: Own Your Space

Here’s the tough-love moment: if you’re building your business entirely on social media, you’re building it on quicksand. The good news? You don’t have to play that game.

Future-proofing your audience starts with owning the space where they live. Whether it’s a private community on a platform like Circle or a simple email list, the goal is the same: create a space that’s yours. A place where you set the rules, control the content, and own the relationships.

Why Private Communities Are the Game-Changer

A private community is like owning a house versus renting an apartment. When you own the space:

  • You control the experience: No landlords, no eviction notices, no waking up to find your engagement tanked.
  • Your audience becomes connected: Members interact not just with you but with each other, creating a stickier, more engaging environment.
  • You unlock monetization opportunities: Offer memberships, courses, or exclusive workshops without splitting your earnings.
  • You get actionable insights: Own the data and use it to build programs that resonate.

Unlike social media, where your audience only sees what the algorithm allows, a private community ensures your members always get the value you’re delivering.

Not Ready for a Community? Start with Email

If launching a private community feels like a big leap, start small. Begin with an email list. Here’s why:

  • Your email list is your safety net: No bans, no algorithms, just direct communication with your audience.
  • It’s personal and direct: Like having a one-on-one conversation instead of shouting into a crowded room.

To get started, create a lead magnet—something so irresistible your audience can’t help but trade their email address for it. Whether it’s a guide, a checklist, or exclusive content, the right freebie can set the tone for a lasting relationship.

Three Steps to Take Control of Your Audience

1. Audit Your Social Media Strategy:

Use social platforms as megaphones, not home bases. Redirect your audience to spaces you own, like your email list or private community.

2. Build Your Email List:

Create a juicy lead magnet and use tools like Flodesk or Mailchimp to set up your list. Don’t forget to nurture it with regular, value-packed emails.

3. Launch a Private Community:

Platforms like Circle make it easy to start small and grow as you go. Whether it’s a free group or a paid membership, owning your community gives you stability, control, and deeper connections.

The Bottom Line: Stop Renting, Start Building

Social media is a fantastic visibility tool, but it’s just one piece of the puzzle. To future-proof your business and your audience, you need spaces you own. Whether it’s a newsletter, a private community, or both, these are your foundation for lasting, meaningful connections.

So, take one step today—start an email list, brainstorm a private community, or simply shift how you use social media. Because here’s the truth: your success shouldn’t depend on TikTok’s fate, Instagram’s algorithm, or the next trending app. It should depend on you, your strategy, and the spaces you own.

What’s Your Next Step?

Are you ready to stop renting your audience and start building something that lasts? Let’s do this together. Check out my Quick Tips for Circle Communities playlist on YouTube for actionable strategies to get started today. And don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more tips on building communities that thrive.

It’s time to take control of your audience—and your business. You’ve got this!


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The TikTok Ban Wake-Up Call: Stop Renting Your Audience

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Hi, I’m Rachel Starr, founder of Rachel Rose Coaching and host of Your Community Strategist Podcast, where we help women course creators, summit hosts, and podcasters turn big ideas into thriving realities.

In my business and with my clients, I don’t just teach this—I live it. From hosting summits and launching courses to building engaged communities and leveraging the right tech, I’ve done the work and know what it takes to bring bold ideas to life. With over two decades of experience, I’ve mastered the art of virtual events and community-building strategies that blend creativity, connection, and results.

At Rachel Rose Coaching, we focus on helping creators take what they have now and make it more—whether that’s launching a podcast, hosting a summit, or building a course that scales. Think of me as a mix of Leslie Knope’s energy and a strategist’s precision, delivering actionable strategies with a playful, heartfelt approach.

Beyond the work, I’m a ski enthusiast, proud mom to two incredible teenagers, and lover of the great outdoors. Whether I’m crafting the perfect spicy margarita or fueling my creativity with coffee, I’m always chasing the next big adventure—on the slopes or in the marketplace.

Life is about big dreams, bold moves, and building communities that make an impact. Let’s make it happen—together!

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